As parents, we all want that, don’t we? But is that reality? If they were happy all the time, how would they learn anything? If “happiness” was our goal, wouldn’t we give our kids everything they need—coddle, constantly protect, intervene at every turn, and get in the way of any conflict coming at our kids? Is that good for them? I’m not suggesting that we do the opposite and push them into situations that will create sadness and anger. But as life happens, walk beside them. Mentoring them through the weeds and pointing them to Scripture can give them the tools they need to seek Christ in all things. If we don’t, they won’t know what to do when “life” hits them right between the eyes. Make sure you read Proverbs 3.
Suggested Reading: Proverbs 3
Proverbs 3 is a great Chapter to hold onto our heart and minds. Great devotional minute for this Nana trying to learn how to be a more intentional Christian grandparent/parent as well.
Thanks for posting. As a father and grandfather it’s so easy to “just want them to be happy” but their happiness shouldn’t be our driving force. While I want that in my family, most importantly I want them to be satisfied with Christ alone. That’s not an easy walk. Jesus Himself said it would be difficult so why do we want to help our kids avoid becoming who He wants them to be? It’s hard navigating these roads, isn’t it?